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Emotional pain, guilty forces

Guilt works its way into the body and forms physical pain when the guilty feelings are overly consuming. Guilt has many causes, but the most harmful cause is the strong sense of failure over expectations. Failure can be real or imagined, and it generates a myriad of feelings, one being guilt.

When guilt manifests as pain, the pain is hard to cure. Rare is the healer who recognizes this cause. Usually the symptoms seem to belong to a recognizable disease, intense ache or affliction. Treatments sometimes help, but if the cause is guilt, treatments will not work fully. 

Guilt is hard to assuage. It impacts the body in waves of emotional turmoil. It seeps into thoughts without warning. It moves in swirls that overturn physical and spiritual systems in the body. It pools in tubes, branches, and connective tissue. It undulates into crevices and openings. 

The feelings that come from a guilty heart can affect the circulatory and respiratory systems. The feelings that come from a guilty bladder can affect the renal system. The feelings that come from a guilty brain can affect varying systems depending on the area in the brain that is guilt ridden, and can affect the nervous, muscular and lymphatic systems. The feelings that come with guilt over unfulfilled expectations of oneself can affect all of those systems, plus the skin and nails.

Healing from guilty feelings requires learning to recognize them and their sources. Guilt that is forced from others can be as harmful as guilt that is self-inflicted. Guilt that is caused by interactions with others in which each party hurts the others can be less harmful, unless physical injury is performed. 

Self-inflicted guilt that is based on perceived failure can be confused with misperception of one’s abilities and obligations. Self-inflicted guilt that is based on rationalization for actions taken that hurt others and sever trust is guilt everlasting, and it resides in many corners of the brain and the arteries. 

Societally-inflicted guilt causes physical afflictions when it overrides personal thought.  Family-bred guilt causes emotional pain that is heavy in the mind, but has less physical manifestations.

Healing from guilty feelings also requires these three actions:

– Analysis of the guilt and its causes, and then when possible, making amends 

– Analysis of the guilt and its causes, and then releasing the guilt (This action may require body-mind work.)

– Analysis of the guilt and its causes, and then examination of life choices to determine if the guilty feelings are justified or are a hindrance to a meaningful life.

Note: This information has been spiritually received.

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There are times when life presents challenges that feel too painful to bear. These challenges can be physical, emotional and spiritual in nature, and can come from internal and/or external causes, or even from realms that are beyond our comprehension. The challenges are faced in many ways, and each way leaves an imprint on the person facing the challenges.

Humor is considered to be a positive way to face challenges, and in general, that is true. It becomes negative when the humor is aimed at the heart or the insecure perception of oneself. Rationalization can be positive or negative, depending on how it’s built. Escapism is one way to face challenges, but in general, it eventually leads to inability to process reality. Striking out is a hurtful way to approach challenges, and it can lead to guilt, broken relationships, and further troubles. Suppressing feelings of hurt and disillusionment can lead to serious physical ailments, or to future growth if the person decides to abandon the hurtful events and focus on the future. Using the feelings of insignificance to bolster oneself towards achievement is helpful only when the person does not trample others on the way.

The spiritual realm sometimes drives the challenges that people face in ways that people cannot fathom. Changes in physical layering (the atmosphere, the magnetosphere, the auroras, and further on) or within the ground can sometimes be attributed to realms in which spiritual forces are at play. In these cases, people have little control and can only react and conjecture meaning.

When manipulation of groups by other groups occurs, each side faces challenges that can upend their lives. Deliberately setting out to harm other people causes physical injury and injury at the spiritual realm. Deliberately proselytizing is a human endeavor that causes change at the individual, group, and spiritual levels. When force is used in the proselytizing, the harm is irreparable. Deliberately harming a group member in one’s own group is defective, and deliberately harming a member of another group is equivalently defective but is often justified by the offending group. No action that is deliberately vindictive receives atonement; it is forever reverberating.

Reverberations of unkindness, violence, abandonment, brutality, duplicity, torture and terrorization, contemptuousness, gloating destructively, and self-exultation over despicable behavior, are causes of most of the challenges that people face. The actual actions could have happened to oneself or to one’s forebears and they lead to emotional pain that can be overwhelming.

Emotional pain displays itself through physical and mental manifestations, so that the causes can be hard to discern. The constructive way to handle hurts, be they physical or emotional, is to address them from several angles and rule out causes that do not apply. Generally, emotional pain resides in parts of the body that hold control or judgement, and each person has susceptible parts depending on physiology, age, tiredness, and learned behavior. (Examples of body parts that hold control are the brain, lungs, and pancreas. Examples of body parts that hold judgement are the small and large intestines, the prostate, and certain tendons in the ankles.) Societal pressures also exert influence on emotional pain. Isolating the cause of emotional pain (because there usually is one main cause) requires a willingness to accept that pain–physical, emotional or spiritual–might have its roots in forces that are internal or external.

Note: This information has been spiritually received.

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Suffering unexplainedly

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Pains in the back or the teeth or the head or the abdomen or the back fontanel or the legs. And in other places as well. Pain that is suffered day in and day out or intermittently without reason for years or months or always. Pain that is debilitating or sort of debilitating or debilitating but withstandable. Pain that is examined and named and dulled and excised—with a scapel or a drill or a laser. Pain that is medicated away or pressed away or slept away.

Pain that always comes back.

Pain can be unbearable, bearable, or determinedly-bearable.

Pain that a person is determined to bear gives strength when the pain is caused by irreparable damage. Overcoming the pain of an amputation or a paralyzed limb is not an easy task and it requires determination and ability to disregard the reality of the pain.

Pain that is unbearable requires attention, not determination to bear it, if the pain is overwhelming yet solvable. The solutions may not be straightforward, but there are solutions.

Pain that is bearable also requires attention. Chronic pain requires solutions that also may not be straightforward. The causes of chronic pain often require attention to physical, emotional, and even spiritual issues. Chronic pain is explored in this blog post: Life with pain.

The causes of pain are mutifaceted. Usually they can be overcome by awareness of emotions and behaviors. Yes, it might be easier to swallow a pill to make the symptoms abate temporarily, but relieving pain through solutions that have effects on the pain and on the underlying causes brings well-being.

 

 

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